Monthly Archives: June 2012
EpiPen Not Included
This week at Vacation Bible School, there was a small degree of panic and pandemonium when a little boy announced he was “allergic to popcorn” while he sat in a room filled with children munching on the midmorning snack.
“We have a child with a popcorn allergy.”
“Can someone find a different snack for him?”
“Different snack?! No! You have to get him out of there! This could be an airborn allergy – his airway could close! There’s popcorn everywhere in there!”
“Someone! Quick! Get him out of there!”
When they retrieved him from the scene, the teachers asked him to explain his symptoms. “Tell us, little guy. What happens to you when you eat popcorn?”
“Oh, nothing. I just don’t like it. I’d like to have something else, thank you.”
Three guesses on who might be the mother of this little fire starter.
Two guesses on which of her sons is the culprit.
The Lovely Miss Ephron
Reading is everything.
Reading makes me feel like I’ve accomplished something, learned something, become a better person.
Reading makes me smarter.
Reading gives me something to talk about later on.
Reading is the unbelievably healthy way my attention deficit disorder medicates itself.
Reading is escape, and the opposite of escape;
it’s a way to make contact with reality after a day of making things up, and it’s a way of making contact with someone else’s imagination after a day that’s all too real.
Reading is grist.
Reading is bliss.
~ Nora Ephron, I Feel Bad About My Neck
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Dear Nora, I have long loved you.
Long before I knew why.
Love to you, lovely lady who changed the world for us girls like you.
I feel like I’ve told you this story already. It’s hard to know, really. We’ve become the kind of friends who toss stories back and forth, adding details and memories to the version we told before. And in that place of show and tell, it doesn’t hurt to hear a story more than once.
I think of Robb every time I put gas in my car. Every time.
First, I think of him because he always did it for me.
Second, I think of him because he broke my habit of driving with the fuel light on and just enough gas to get me through the day. We were engaged, and we were in the blending process of mine-is-yours and yours-is-mine. (Or as he liked to tease me, mine-is-yours and yours-is-yours.) He was weary of getting in my car and finding that his beloved bride had been carelessly driving with not quite enough fuel to get anywhere with certainty.
He had heard (certainly not read) that it takes 28 days to form a habit, so he presented a challenge.
“Tricia, it’s just as easy to keep your tank at least half full as it is to keep it just above empty. For one month, you have to keep your gas tank above 1/4 of a tank. If you can do it, I’ll buy you shoes. But if I get in this car and see it below 1/4, then you have to clean my whole apartment, top to bottom. Deal?”
Um, yes. Deal. I want the shoes, and I don’t want to clean your bachelor pad.
And sure enough, I finished the month with a new pair of shoes and a safer, better habit. (And he got a clean apartment because he kept it that way anyway.)
Once he felt assured that I would make wise decisions with my fuel and my safety, he resumed his self-proclaimed role of filling my tank himself. And without fail, every time he filled it for me, he got back in the car and said, “Whew. Your car was thirsty, girl. This was one thirsty car.”
I hear him in my head. Every single time.
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It’s where this whole gig began, and there are millions of words there too.
Thanks for wanting to know the whole story.